As long as we adapt to earthenware, conflict is inevitable. Our human nature does not allow us to navigate our friendships perfectly. Conflict resolution is a viable and necessary skill in order to maintain a thriving friendship.
A helpful attitude in resolving conflict is to maintain the perspective that our friends are first and foremost our brothers and sisters. Begin by acknowledging that each other is a child of God, which is a great reminder to honor God in the way we treat each other. We do not want to misrepresent our Heavenly Father by being at odds with each other over unresolved conflicts in our friendships. Rather, when resolving conflict, we want to do so in a respectful manner so that we convey to our friends and to God the understanding that no matter what, we are still part of God’s family.
Avoiding conflict resolution is a tactic used by our enemies to undermine our friendships. Our friends are never our enemies. Actually, We have a real enemy who wants nothing more than to tear apart all our godly friendships and influence us to focus on nitpicking, arguing, and judging. this That’s why Jesus tells us in John 10:10 (CSB): “The thief comes only to steal. and kill and destroy. I came that they might have life and have it abundantly.
conflict often characterized as as something bad Or negative, but not necessarily. we can choose See it as a good and positive thing provides us with opportunities mature alone also Grow in our friendship. When applied correctly, thoughtfully and purposefully, conflict resolution can actually strengthen our bonds of friendship with another person.
all this key Essentials of a good relationship—effective communication, active listening, empathy, forgiveness, patience, grace, compassion, humor, and Humility – when trying to resolve conflicts will help us build friendships with others. Let us commit to keeping our hearts and minds open so that peace can fill us and flow through us.In this way, our friendship garden will continue to be fruitful and luxuriant. more and more As the days go by.
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