When the children of Christian parents stray from the faith, it is easy for them to judge other parents. They don’t take into account the pain and confusion the parents are going through. If you are a friend or family member of someone who is struggling with prodigality, here are some ways to encourage them.
Let them know you are praying
Meet with the Prodigal’s parents once or twice a week and pray with them. Knowing that others are sharing the burden of prayer can bring relief to the parents of a prodigal son. Assure them that you will continue to pray every time you think about the Prodigal Son.
Let them know they are not alone
Get together with your prodigal parents and listen to their opinions. Let them talk, cry, scream, or do whatever they need to feel better.
It will be a process for their children to come to God
Like the biblical story of the prodigal son, it takes time for a child to return to God. Very few people wake up one day and immediately decide to repent and turn to the Lord. In most cases, this can be a very gradual process. Let your prodigal parents know that you understand this and do not expect them to show great repentance.
Let them know you’ll do your part
Sometimes children have to hear things from someone other than their parents. Pray and ask God if He would allow you to reach out to the Prodigal and make a connection. If so, what is the best way to contact God. this Maybe take them to lunch or give them a call.
Let them know there are other prodigals in the church
When pastors teach about prodigals, they should drive it home and be honest about prodigals in the church. this It doesn’t mean calling people out or naming people. However, parents of prodigal children in the church can take comfort in knowing that they are not alone and that other church members are going through the same thing. Another idea is to create a group for prodigal parents so they can connect, share stories and support each other.
Parents’ Battle Plan: Strategies to Win Back the Prodigal Son Author: Ryan Lawson Craft
This book might be a good read for parents of prodigal sons. The author, who has three wayward children, provides hope and personal insight for grieving parents. There’s also a proven battle plan to get you through the season.
Parents will learn how to deal with the emotional difficulties of trust, how to deal with their children’s self-destructive choices, how to pray boldly based on God’s promises, and more. To be able to navigate this part of their lives.
Being the parent of a prodigal can feel isolating, isolated, and heartbreaking, but it doesn’t have to be. Remember, you are not responsible for your child’s walk with God; you are responsible for your child’s walk with God. Their choice is not your fault. Instead, talk to God, pray, and ask others for the love and support you need. you are not alone. God sees you and hears you.Trust Him to care for your children and trust His will finished.
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