November 22-23, 2023 Venus in Libra Opposing Chiron in Aries.
Chiron in Aries is our identity trauma. Venus determines our relationships with the world, especially in one-to-one relationships.
Venus in Aries opposing Chiron will expose the tension between our identity wounds (“Who am I?” “Do I have a right to be here?”) and our desire to be liked and appreciated by others (Venus in Libra) Tensions.
Venus opposite Chiron – face to face with wounds
Every time we’re in a relationship – any relationship – There’s a delicate struggle between staying true to who we are and fitting in with othersso they can “like” us, or at least accept us.
When we connect, we are constantly negotiating between our need for connection and our fear of losing ourselves.
The opposition is a very interesting aspect.Oppositions are like full moons – the two planets are the maximum distance between each otherriver
Due to the 180 degree angle they have maximum visibility.
They looked into each other’s eyes.
This creates a situation where we are fully aware of the energy at play, but a solution is (or seems) impossible.
Venus Opposing Chiron – Projection
This intense dynamic leads to a psychological phenomenon that psychologists call “projection”.
Projection occurs when we place our own unconscious characteristics or emotions onto others.
With Chiron in Aries opposite Venus in Libra, we feel Simultaneous need to connect with and be accepted by others and fear of rejection Because we show “too much,” or because we show something that is (or we think) undesirable.
In response to opposition tensions, we often gravitate toward one of two scenarios.
1. We agree that Chiron is in Aries.
We feel divided, conflicted, and unloved—and look for a partner who can fill that void and make us feel whole again.
2. We think Venus in Libra is a people-pleaser.
We prioritize other people’s feelings so much that we don’t even know who we are. In an attempt to overcompensate, we attract Chiron-Aries type partners, whose “craziness” and pursuit of individuality will help us realize who we are.
When this relationship dynamic is activated, and if this hurtful dynamic goes unrecognized, we can end up in toxic or abusive relationships that are not activated, or that only superficially tap into Chiron’s healing potential .
Fortunately, Venus-Chiron opposition supported by Mercury in Sagittariuswhich trines Chiron and sextiles Venus.
There is a way to navigate this dynamic and find the silver lining. By recognizing the hurtful patterns that arise during this opposition, we can consciously and openly communicate about our weaknesses and fears (thanks, Mercury).
When we are unaware of the Venus-Chiron dynamic, we attract people and fall into patterns of association that keep us stuck in wounds with no clear path to healing.
Instead, when we consciously tap into the energy of our opposition, we can get to the root of the wound and heal it.
Unconscious ways of dealing with Chiron-Venus wounds include being attracted to, and drawing people to, those who trigger victim-abuser, or narcissist-empath relationships.
Ways to consciously deal with Chiron-Venus wounds include therapy, self-reflection, or constructive and open discussion of our emotional needs and vulnerabilities.
Venus Opposing Chiron – Path to Healing
How do we know the difference?
If you feel triggered (for better or worse), magnetically attracted, or inexplicably attracted to someone or something, there may be unconscious dynamics at play.
Conversely, if you feel vulnerable but have the ability to process and understand these feelings, you may be able to consciously handle the situation.
Chiron opposes Venus and trines Mercury, inviting us to explore wounded parts of ourselves with curiosity and kindness while cultivating authentic connections with ourselves and others.
Notice any feelings, related patterns, or insights that arise during these days. Watch out for all the upcoming Chiron transits. Do Chiron’s work.
The Venus-Chiron opposition is just a preview—and an opportunity to experience Chiron’s healing potential.
But there are bigger things coming.
when. . .when The North Node will eventually conjunct Chiron (February 2024) We will have a unique opportunity to “break the cycle”, rewrite unhealthy conditions, and become the people we are meant to be.
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